Sorry it took so long for a reply! Welcome to the site and I'll try to give you options from my two pennies worth [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif[/img]
I really didn't like the ride of my EX at all! I thought it was actually a little unsafe to drive and cornered like crap! I figured the problem was more than just crappy Ford shocks. Well Ford for some stupid reason doesn't even put V code ("medium duty") front springs under their HEAVIEST engine offered! SO I started out wanting to go with the snow plow springs (X codes) that where ONLY offered on the f250/f350-gas engines [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/shrug.gif[/img] and F450/F550 [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/shrug.gif[/img] as for the rear I was going to go with the 4" block and new u-bolts. Then I was going to install Donahoe shocks on all 4 corners and be done with some 33" tires and wheels. I know you said you didn't want to go with something rougher...but from what I've been hearing it really isn't close to being a harsh ride at all with the X springs.[img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/shrug.gif[/img]
So basically this is what you are looking at for option #3.... replacing the front springs with new X codes replace the rear 2" block with a 4" one. Add some new u-bolts and Donahoes shocks. Call them for the shocks...I thought they had some cheaper ones available. I only see the $95 dollar ones on their site.
For option #2....You may want to look into
THEIR stuff since you don't want to stiffin her up a bit. But you have to buy shocks and rear blocks and u-bolts so you are around the same $$$ as X springs.
As for the rear add-a-leaf [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/shrug.gif[/img] I never looked into it and I think someone here has done it and maybe they will see this topic. But remember...If you put leaves in your going to be looking into new u-bolts anyways so I would think it would be a little cheaper to go the blocks. Plus the blocks won't effect the rear sping pack at all.
I would either go X spring or hanger system rather than the 4 wheel parts stuff. Just my opinion! Their stuff will most likely give you a ride you won't like [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/eek.gif[/img]
You don't have to go with the pitman arm but someone here may disagree with me. I would concider the panrod bar to keep the axle aligned perfectly under the truck.
All this crap is just my opinion so good luck with whatever you do!
Brent.
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