Get the X with a 7.3....there is no question it will be a great truck, some of the 03s have the 7.3, I was on the bubble and could have went with the 6.0 but am glad I stuck with the 7.3. I have 200,000 miles of trouble free driving. Also if you want to feel like you are in a truck....well the X is a truck, a full size, solid frame real true truck. If you want your wife to be as safe as possible you want the X, 8000 lbs of unibody crushing force is priceless, she can see over traffic too which is a safety point, when I get in an auto I go crazy not knowing whats going on 10 cars up. Plus you get to become one of the family here and if there is any question about any part of this truck we can answer it. As far as where....you just have to look everywhere, one could pop up at any time. Before you buy you need to drive it and look it over, then come here and ask about any weird things you see before you buy it. Every person who sees or rides in my X wants one, most have no idea they are not built anymore.