A little different plug when I was working on my 2008 tow mirrors:
Look on the back side, where wires are, and see if there isn’t a catch (clip) to release and push in on it like in this picture:
Then when it start to pop out you can grip it with needle nose pliers and remove:
And a look at the individual plastic clips, once that blade is out, and how they lock the pins in place:
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