If you notice from my diagram I posted earlier, the high beams indicator uses a different ground (Connector A, Pin 3) than the rest of the indicators on that connector. So that side of the connector is OK, at least right then.
Now, pin A11 is the Low range indicator, A12 is the 4x4 indicator, A13 is the ground on connector A for everything except high beams and Seatbelt indicator. A14 is the supply for the charge indicator.
The Speedo & odometer is on a completely seperate connector and circuit, so the fact that it was working doesn't tell us much other than that connector is OK.
It sounds to me like the high numbered side of the A connector is loose, maybe corroded or just plain dirty. Make sure your gauge and security wiring isn't pulling it loose.