First, install aftermarket gauges - minimum of a pre-turbo pyrometer, and if she tows more than a rowboat, then tranny temp gauge too. She won't need a turbo boost gauge unless she participates in some sort of racing.
Next decide the way to add a DP-Tuner tune: flash the PCM, use a programmer, or install a chip. Then decide which tune would be best for her driving conditions: probably 80-economy.
If she tows more than a rowboat, then she may need at least two tunes, one of them a towing tune. In that case the one tune in a flashed PCM won't do the trick, so she'll need either a programmer or a multi-position chip. The programmer is easy to use, but requires a coupla of minutes to change from one tune to another. The chip is a lot more difficult to install, but offers shift-on-the-fly changing of tunes.
DP-Tuner
The red line is 1,250º pre-turbo exhaust gas temp (EGT). If she rarely sees over 1,200º, then no more modifications are necessary. But it she gets up to the red line too easily, then she might also want intake and exhaust mods to tackle more grade, speed, or load weight without too-high EGT.
The tranny temp red line is 225º. If she ever sees over about 210º, then she needs inceased tranny cooling capacity.