A handheld ohmmeter uses a very small voltage to measure resistance.
If you apply 12V, as it says below, you would have to have a meter that can handle that much amperage.
Unfortunately, there isn't enough info on that e-bay listing to know, as Mr Gardens says, how it works, or if it will work.
I think that an amp meter would give you the "idea" of their health as you say, but a 200or so amp meter? where and how expensive? and you would have to run a "big" wire from your GP relay to the meter in the cab, and really it isn't safe, which is why there is a relay.
That being said, here is the only thing I can fathom working.
Use a three position switch. On-Off-Momentary On
Find an ohmmeter that steps the 12 volts down to a tiny voltage, or the right combination of transformer and meter, so that when you are reading the resistance, you are not really energizing the GPs.
Hook the momentary position on the switch to "fire" the GPs.
For the "On" position, you would go from battery to meter to "On" position of switch, and then to the GPs.
This way when you "fire" the GPs you would not fry the meter, and when you switch to the meter, the glow plugs will not be energized with 12 volts.
I suppose you could wire in a handheld meter, you would just have to have batteries in it.
To answer your question, no, I am not normally such a nerd.