I can tell you the mileage sucks, but then again, it does not look like the Ford really gets that good of mileage in the first place. I am towing 17k and still have under 1k miles on the engine and have only got 7 - 7.5 mpg. City/Hwy no towing is neting 10-11mpg. Less than half of my previous tow vehicle. However, I must say, like it has already been said, I did not buy this for the gas mileage!
That said, towing 14k I would look at the 4:10's. I have several friends that tow 10k - 12k with 3:73's and all have no problems and get much better mileage than I do. I personally got the tow boss only because of the increased GCWR. 4:10's would probably been the better fit.