Thank you for the reply, it is appreciated. I originally figured I was somehow pressing the remote opening button on the key. Last trip pulling the fifth wheel, the key was in the console unmolested and the tailgate still opened. I was very lucky not to have damaged the tailgate or the trailer.
So taking your advice, I called my dealer. Seems diesel appts are only about three weeks out now

According to the dealer, my VIN does not show as being eligible for this recall. The lady said she would have the SM call me but based on my previous issue, I am not holding out hope.
I have removed the connections at the rear of the truck and filled them with dielectric hoping to overcome any water intrusion issues there. Next step is to remove the tailgate cover and take a look for any potential water issues inside. My understanding is the recall made repairs to the wiring around the electronic latch component. Not sure what to expect. I also believe there is a setting in software that will disable the remote opening and I really have no need for it.
I guess another option is removing the electronic opening and replacing it with a manual latch. Will report back, anyone with experience please chime in!